went to see him several years ago. my spouse then was of course telling his lies, because he is passive aggressive, started lieing, I interrupted and then got reprimanded being told that I was shutting the spouse down. I was defending myself because the spouse had been lieing so much. what about me and the abuse and accusatons that was put on me. I was tired of taking my spouses verbal, mental and physical abuse. Since that apt, the spouse has choked me numerous times. my spouse said he could do it because I was shutting him down. the dr made it worse and I suffered physical abuse, because he took the males side, not hearing both sides